Of copy/pasting this comment from the last post to make one of it's own...
I am going to do this, and link to Holly's site, and then go to bed and allow dreams to continue the processing , um process! ha!
NOTE: NO Offense should be taken by ANY PARTY. What SHOULD be taken is EACH AND EVERY WORD TO HEART-- BY ALL THREE OF US. Myself most of all.
So Mote It Be... And a very sincere THANKS to this Matron who is confident enough to offer advise in the true FRIEND manner-- TRUTH, and no side-stepping.
THANK YOU, Lady Holly...
Um, this is bullshit...truly. It sounds all noble and courtly lovish, but truly tis bullshit.
Someone in the three of you wants their way on their terms on their timing in a way that they feel they can control.
The other? Just wants a good time and what comes along. Come what may sort of attitude.
Fear is afoot here...that's always what it gets down to...fear that the investment won't pay off, fear that you might not get what you want...
But, the biggest fear? Taking the chance that you might feel something ! EWWWW, too scary for some...
So any excuse is a good excuse, and the whole courtly love thing, "I'll back away..." what a noble martyr that would make.
In the end of it all? What the hell is it that you want out of this, Man? And, be real clear. Because that's the only way that this might come out the way you hope instead of feeling like Wile E. Coyote after opening a package from a company called Acme Gunpowder.
Get my drift? This is about feelings...this is about fear.
Your worth a whole lot of fear and trembling...someone who wants to take it as it unfolds. YOU. Are. WORTH. It.
As always, folks-- please chime in... because in today's economy, HEY! Two cents is Two cents!!! [makes sense! lol]